Is it possible to achieve self-mastery in 21 days?
I believe it is not only possible, I am certain that each one of us can change our minds about anything, with intention and singular focus. Whether it’s mastery over a substance addiction, weight loss, or a more deeply imbedded and complicated emotional complex with the related physical issues, something in me knows it is all possible.
Because we humans are thinkers and often quite reactive to our past time experiences, everything we are or do in this very moment, physically, mentally and emotionally, is based on thoughts related to life experiences. In fact, most everything we think about in present time was probably hardwired into our brains long before we reached age seven. Over the years, these thoughts have evolved into the beliefs that we project out into the world every day.
Those beliefs are as real as our bones, as real as the houses we live in and as real as the roads on which we drive our sturdy metal cars. Now if you know about energy, you also know that our beliefs create even more experiences to substantiate themselves, supporting the only reality we know and probably the one we dislike. This phenomenon is both our morphogenic field and our safety zone no matter how disgruntled about our creations we may be!
Tomorrow, on October 1, 2010, and for the next 21 days, I will shift my behavior and my belief about how the outside world is my enemy. By simply setting the intention, I’ve already begun to call in opportunities and experiences that ultimately help me in achieving my goal of freedom from that particular fear and the burdensome, protective behaviors I create as a result of my belief.
I love to set goals coupled with spiritual intentions, yet this one is very specific and rubs up against the tap root of my life-long nemesis: fear of being annihilated, and its flip-side, my own annihilating defensive actions. Everything else stems from or revolves around this mind-set. It could well be the moment I engage in fighting “the good fight” of my life.
Right now my palms are sweaty, my gut is in a knot, my skin is tingling as though I’m really not here, and I am feeling a deep, uncontrollable bone level vibration. My eyesight is dim and narrow in this moment because a lot of my energy is hovering above my head like a low-lying cloud heavy with rain. Even in writing this, I am suddenly filled with grief. What am I losing with this intention; what will I actually gain? Answers will come along the way, no doubt, and I’ll let you know each day what I experience and learn.
As a willful control freak, I’m sure these responses are present because I’ve got no idea how it will unfold. I can see the result, the end point, yet I am blind to the steps and terrain along the way. Sure, I could ask Jesus, Mary Magdalene, God and the Universe for ease as I erase this useless script I wrote long ago, and I definitely will. In addition, I will ask for witnesses. And because of the nature of this intention, I will soon see just how un-accepting and resistant I am to the next step in my growth!
With that said, one of the most important things I want to keep in view during this time is the double edged sword of distraction. It’s so easy to become distracted by other more mundane tasks in the heat of an existentially crazy moment, avoiding the feelings it presents, and yet it’s just as easy to become distracted by and entrenched in the emotional scene itself! Both identities are dead end streets.
I feel apprehensive and lonely, as though I’m going to sail around the world solo, through all the heavy foreign seas and high winds, fending for myself in incredible turbulence. Worse for me may be the lulls and doldrums; even the thought quickly becomes a frightening prophecy.
Well, bon voyage everyone. Here’s to my journey! I’ll see you back here tomorrow as I sail across the cosmic seas, into the wind against the chop, into the West.
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